Yeah, like dressing up in stuff you'd never normally wear. I knew a guy who had this fucking amazing maid costume he'd put on.
What goes over best? Hm. Good question. Some girls really like to be demeaned and dominated. Had a fucking fantastic time having a chick blow me at work, all on her knees and begging to suck my dick.
[The only piece of genuine advice from here on out.]
But really? That's a pity. I know for sure that some girls are really. Really. Into it. But alternatively, you could just be really submissive. And play like you want to be her pet. Begging at her feet and asking her to humiliate you.
Jeez dude. I don't know what to tell you. There's a lot that's new, and you gotta be open-minded to try it out. How do you know you won't like it until you do?
[ There was a part of him that liked the whole Silks thing with Aramat, after all. So, if Kenzi really likes this stuff, he could... try to find it enjoyable. ]
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Date: 2017-01-04 12:50 am (UTC)dressing up?
that sounds like fun
:)
in your experience then:
what tends to go over best?
[ Yeah, look at that subtlety there. ]
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:02 am (UTC)Yeah, like dressing up in stuff you'd never normally wear. I knew a guy who had this fucking amazing maid costume he'd put on.
What goes over best?
Hm.
Good question.
Some girls really like to be demeaned and dominated.
Had a fucking fantastic time having a chick blow me at work, all on her knees and begging to suck my dick.
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:06 am (UTC)[ HE'S PICTURING, LIKE. MRS. POTTS. RIGHT NOW. ]
i don't want to demean anyone i'm sleeping with
:/
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:08 am (UTC)Short skirt, thigh high stockings.
Showing off cleavage.
Why not? You don't mean it. It's just a game.
They know that.
It's just fun.
Don't you like to be dominant?
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:13 am (UTC)i see now
that makes sense
[ Kind of like the outfit he wore for Aramat at Silks. ]
sometimes
a little
but not particularly
no burning need to dominate
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:18 am (UTC)[The only piece of genuine advice from here on out.]
But really?
That's a pity.
I know for sure that some girls are really.
Really.
Into it.
But alternatively, you could just be really submissive.
And play like you want to be her pet.
Begging at her feet and asking her to humiliate you.
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:19 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2017-01-04 01:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2017-01-04 01:24 am (UTC)just
laugh and enjoy each other's company where you're from?
why the power games?
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:26 am (UTC)We like to push limits.
See what new heights we can reach.
Or lows, depending on your perspective.
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:37 am (UTC)[ There was a part of him that liked the whole Silks thing with Aramat, after all. So, if Kenzi really likes this stuff, he could... try to find it enjoyable. ]
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:41 am (UTC)Try something you wouldn't expect.
Surprise her.
Don't be afraid to go all out.
It'll show how much you want it.
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:45 am (UTC)i could surprise her with a dress!
[ YEAH THAT'S WHAT HE TOOK AWAY FROM THIS. ]
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:46 am (UTC)[Head + desk + repetition.]
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:47 am (UTC)for 'role playing' reasons
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:48 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2017-01-04 01:50 am (UTC)you've been a big help
:)
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Date: 2017-01-04 01:51 am (UTC)